But I've been taking a break from the social scene in London over the last month, and I haven't actually had any adventures as such to report on. Instead I've been doing some naval gazing while pottering around my home town in Yorkshire. Rather unexpectedly its actually been a lovely break from the chaos of London, and a chance to reacquaint myself with old friends and family.

And so I found myself in the pub yesterday with some friends...

One of them is Lea, who I stumbled upon earlier today. I found her posts to be articulate, fun and I also learnt a few things. What more can you ask for?

I've added a link to her blog "Transgender Evolution" on...

In fact I've spent the last few weeks away from crazy-is-the-new-normal London and back in my home town. I'm trying to recharge and get some perspective on how I get out of the hole I (like so many others) currently find myself in.

So lots of peace and quiet and looking at a field full of cows from my bedroom window. Rather a contrast to London...

A lot of the parties that happen around me are rather, err, full on, shall we say. And as a friend once pointed out to me I'm a niche, I'm not everyone's cup of tea. Which for the hard of thinking, is another way of saying that not everyone wants to f*ck me.

Ridiculous as it may sound I'm also quite shy....